Are you feeling depressed after the break up? Do you feel like crying 24 hours a day and would not like to meet anyone Do you lose your appetite or want to eat more? It's time to stop doing this! Trust me, it is not that difficult to get your life back on track and may be even get back together with your ex. So read on.
The first thing you should do now is stop communicating with your ex completely. Don't send any more text message, e-mail messages and also stop calling your ex. Also definitely do not send "I want to say sorry" cards. Do not send flowers. Stop scaring your ex, stop begging, stop apologizing. Imagine this: would you be happy if you were the one getting all those things. Would you really be happy?? Think about yourself and your life.
Then, start getting out of the house and see friends. You should note that looking back at the past does not help and is useless. You and your ex must evaluate your lives apart. So instead of watching TV, go out and meet your firiends. Stop thinking about your ex. That problem will come later. Enjoy your life the best you can and may be even go out on dates.
You should do things you love. Continue doing your favorite sport or do some new hobbies like baking and painting. All these things will help building your self esteem after the hard break up.
After some weeks, send a mysterious message to your ex. Say things like Let us meet in your favorite restaurant or Thank you for everything without further explanation. You should be really sure about what you want to tell your ex. You definitely should be ask for a meeting.
Dont show your ex a proxy boyfriend or girlfriend to make him or her jealous. This will make your ex move on, because you showed him that you moved on. Yes, you will find things like that in movies. But movies are not the real world.
After a date or two, show that you are an improved person. Tell your ex about your new hobbies or new ideas from your work. If your ex is still in love with you somehow, this is the right time to get back together. May be you can reminisce the past and get back together.

Be are that getting back together is possible, but in a lot of cases it is not easy. If your ex doesnt want to make up, then dont force him or her. If this is the case soon a new partner will come into your life. That's the way life goes.